Type 2

The Altruist

Seeks to be loved and care for others.

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There is no greater happiness than to contribute to the happiness of others..

— Anonymous

In a nutshell

  • Fundamental motivation: To be loved and enjoy the feeling of helping others
  • Fundamental fear: Being unloved or worthless
  • Strength: Generosity, empathy, emotional support
  • Weakness: Possessiveness, difficulty recognizing one's own needs

Type 2 description

Understand the motivations, strengths and challenges of this profile

Portrait général

Type 2, known as the Altruist, focuses on the need to be loved and appreciated. They often find fulfillment in helping and supporting others. Driven by natural empathy, they seek to create strong bonds and feel indispensable.

In their quest for affection, Type 2s can forget to take care of their own needs, and even develop a form of emotional dependence.

Deep motivations

Type 2 is motivated by the desire to be appreciated and valued. Their need to feel useful drives them to make themselves indispensable, sometimes at the risk of burning out. In return, they expect recognition and affection from those close to them.

Motivation level: Very high intensity

Special strengths

  • Empathy and benevolence
  • Ability to create links
  • Emotional support
  • Generosity and altruism
  • Ability to perceive the needs of others

Points to watch

  • Tendency towards emotional dependence
  • Difficulty setting limits
  • Lack of recognition of one's own needs
  • Possessiveness or subtle manipulation
  • Risk of emotional exhaustion

Tip: Learn to clearly express your own needs and set limits to avoid exhaustion and preserve your balance.

Wings of Type 2

How adjacent types influence your personality

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Type 2 wing 1

The influence of 1-wing brings a strong sense of duty and responsibility to Type 2. More rational and pragmatic, the 2 Wing 1 seeks to help by being efficient and organized, while remaining attentive to the needs of others.

Key features :

  • Strong moral compass
  • Organization and reliability
  • Willingness to do the right thing and abide by the rules
Famous example

Nelson Mandela.

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Type 2 wing 3

Wing 3 accentuates the sociable and charismatic aspect of Type 2. Oriented towards success and social recognition, this profile likes to motivate and encourage others, while seeking admiration for its achievements.

Key features :

  • Charisma and interpersonal skills
  • Focus on success and image
  • The desire to shine while helping
Famous example

Princesse Diana.

Paths of Evolution

How Type 2 develops under stress or during growth

Integration

To Type 4

When evolving positively, Type 2 develops greater self-awareness and emotional awareness, like Type 4. They learn to recognize their own needs and accept themselves as they are, without systematically seeking external validation.

Signs of integration :

  • Deeper connection to feelings
  • Authentic self-expression
  • Enhanced creativity and individuality

To encourage this evolution :

Get to know yourself, make time for your personal passions and develop a healthy awareness of your emotional limits.

In Disintegration

To Type 8

Under intense stress, a Type 2 may switch to the less balanced behaviors of a Type 8, becoming more demanding, controlling and sometimes authoritarian. In this dynamic, they seek to impose their will and protect themselves from emotional injury.

Signs of disintegration :

  • Authoritarianism and lack of flexibility
  • Anger or resentment towards those who fail to meet expectations
  • The desire to maintain control at all costs

To avoid this trend :

Refocus on your original motivation to love and help. Don't be afraid to ask for support or to delegate to relieve the pressure..

Relations with other Types

Type 2 relational dynamics

Natural affinities

These types tend to get on well with Type 2. :

Type 6
Type 9
Type 1

They often share a desire for harmony, mutual support and caring, creating warm, stable relationships.

Complementarities

These types can be combined with Type 2 :

Type 3
Type 7

The dynamism of Type 3 and the enthusiasm of Type 7 stimulate the sociability and energy of Type 2, which can then flourish in joint projects.

Relationship challenges

These relationships may require more effort :

Type 5
Type 8

Differences in how intimacy and emotions are handled can lead to misunderstandings. Open communication is essential to avoid frustration and conflict.

Tips for communicating with a Type 2

  • Express your gratitude for their help and support.
  • Respect their sensitivity and emotions.
  • Encourage them to take care of themselves and respect their limits.
  • Listen to them and recognize their efforts, but don't overdo it.

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